....and so it is done! Dawn and I are handfasted! On the evening of 31st October we celebrated our binding. It was a truly magical evening........
The build up started on the Wednesday as our children and Dawn's dad arrived by plane. Not before we were completely blown away by the early arrival of our fab friends Alan, Debbie and Alf with Nabeyo dogs in tow. These guys consistantly surprise us and we love 'em to death.
It took two vehicles to pick Sinead, Bella, Luke, Liv and John up from Inverness airport. For John this was a momentous day as he was never going back ........Dawn has found a cottage in Keith for her dad, he had packed his belongings and now has become a white settler (Englishman in Scotland) along with us.
For the rest of the family who were driving up, things were not so simple. Yvonnne and Alan had satnav mischief and from being nearly on our doorstep, managed to do a tour of the North-East of Scotland....their 11 hour journey, being extended to a whopping 17 hours. Mike and Lisa set off behind them and battled snow and high winds as they crossed the Cairngorms in their wee Micra. Eventually , at 01:30 in the morning, everyone had arrived safely.
The next day was dominated by preparations for the big day. We cannot begin to thank all our guests for their hard work. It made everything so much more enjoyable as everyone pulled together to get stuff done. We counted 18 people in the house that night....and only one bathroom! Yet everyone was great. The only misshap was some extremely dodgy parking on Lukes behalf!....anyone selling a car??
Friday came around very quickly. We had chosen to hold our ceremony at night on Halloween and this gave us time to finish last minute preparations. It also allowed Dawn and I to become more and more excited/stressed. Dawn had beautifying appointments which gave me time to worry in private. It wasn't a horrid stress, rather an anxiety that all our plans would work out and our guests would enjoy themselves. We had decided that although we had been together during the day, we would have our final preparations apart. I went to our neighbours Andy and Diane where I was greeted with a large whisky.Andy helped me get dressed.....normally I am quite capable of getting my clothes on, but I was surprising Dawn by wearing a kilt and full Scottish garb. I had to ensure my sporran was sitting right!! Sinead and Bella helped Dawn with final makeup, hair and dressing.
The last part of the jigsaw was Elena and John arriving. Elena is one of Dawn's bestest friends. We were blown away by their decision to fly up on the Friday, join us for our marriage, then fly home the next day for another family party. We are blessed to have friends like this. The ceremony was due to start at 7pm and with minutes to spare Elena and John pulled up looking stunning.
We had arranged to have owls from the local falconry centre to greet our guests and to be part of the ceremony. Our thanks to John and Kirk for a wonderful display and such beautiful animals. Our guests were assembled and messages passed to Dawn to come across. I will never forget that moment when Dawn came around the corner with my girls holding her bridal train. To me I was marrying the most beautiful woman on the planet. Dawn initially did not register that the strange man in a kilt was her husband-to-be.....but then was most complimentary of my surprise outfit.
With everyone inside the Mill and waiting we took a moment to hold each others hand. As we entered, Murray, the Eagle Owl flew in and across the circle we were about to enter. Fiona called our guests to order and we entered the circle on her invitation. We had chosen a Pagan ceremony to mark our binding and it felt absolutely right in every sense, reflecting our beliefs and allowing us to say what we wanted to in front of family and friends. Our celebrant Fiona had helped us create the most wonderful ceremony. Standing in the middle of that circle, making our vows and binding ourselves to each other and to our children was a magical event. We must also thank Vanessa, Layla, Helena and Emma for calling the Quarters for us. There are some pictures in the gallery section for your pleasure!
The rest of the evening was fantastic. We were so lucky to have Paul Anderson play fiddle for our guests. For those of you who do not know this genius, Paul is the Glenfiddich champion of Scotland and his music is sublime. Have a google and you will find Pauls albums available to purchase. We danced and danced and laughed and danced some more. I was so happy and looking at our many photos it seems in every shot people are smiling and laughing. Alan carved our tasty piggy, hogroasted to perfection and we feasted royally. I hope everyone enjoyed the evening as much as we did. I certainly enjoyed the freedom and swirliness of dancing in a kilt!
At 01:30 our cab arrived to take us to The Mains of Auchindachy where we were to spend our wedding night. Ronnie and Lynn had provided a beautiful room for us and if you should ever be looking for a Bed and Breakfast in the area we heartily recommend their beautiful home.
Overall we had a perfect night and we want to thank all our guests and well-wishers who helped make it such a special event. Our gifts and blessings were amazing and so thoughtful. Dawn and I have been together for more than 10 years, and I truly believe we fall deeper and deeper in love with each passing day. I am blessed to have this life and to share it with Dawn.